Lisa Appleton is back to offer her pearls of wisdom to Daily Star Online readers once more.
Last time, the Big Brother beauty was helping a woman who was convinced her man was having it off with their cleaner after seeing their close bond first-hand after starting working from home due to the coronavirus lockdown.
Despite the woman’s fears that her beau may say she’s completely got the wrong end of the stick, Lisa said it was important not to be made “a t*t out of in your own home”.
She added that if frank communication and showing each other more attention and affection still didn’t work, the woman should hire a window cleaner and have start sleeping with him!
Lisa Appleton helps Daily Star Online readers with their nookie nightmares
This week, Lisa is helping a woman who wants her hubby to sleep with another woman in the hopes that the sexual taboo will help spice up their sex lives.
‘I want my husband to have sex with another woman but he won’t agree’
Dear Lisa,
My husband and I have been together for 10 years and it’s been brilliant for the most part.
We decided quite early on we didn’t want children and so we’ve spent the last decade exploring the world together and just having a truly exciting time.
Our sex life has also been incredible but over the past year or so, it’s become a little stale.
Don’t get me wrong I still really enjoy it – but I think it needs spicing up. While it’s a bit taboo, it’s always been my secret fantasy to watch my other half have sex with someone else in front of me.
While I know it sounds shocking, I felt confident enough in bringing this up to my hubby the other week, as our communication has always been so strong.
But I didn’t get the reaction I was hoping for.
He himself admitted that he thought the idea would be really fun but he didn’t want to risk doing it as he doesn’t believe that I won’t end up resenting him.
I insisted to him that I really will be fine but he won’t have it. So it’s starting to cause friction at home. How do I try and convince him to do it?
Thanks,
Anonymous
Lisa says:
Well, you’ve been together a long time, you feel comfortable with each other and it’s gone a bit stale and you just want to spice things up a bit.
Lisa Appleton talks sex and relationships
And you feel confident and comfortable enough to watch your husband have sex with another woman.
Now, he thinks that sounds fun, but he’s mulled over things and is being realistic that if he does have sex with another woman and you watch, that even though it may spice up your love life, it may backfire and you might throw it back in his face and resent him.
It’s exciting and if you’re both up for it, that’s your business, but the way to convince him, I would probably keep it lighthearted and just reassure him.
And you know, if he meets up with another girl, how about you and the girl get together first? And he watches you two, so, it’s involving you as well.
Then it eases you both into it and then your hubby and her can eventually work up to having sex and you can watch.
That may make him feel a bit more relaxed.
It’s also all about who you choose and location etc that you need to weigh up.
So, you just reassure him and tell him you’ll both be in full control of it and the logistics around it and just have a relaxing night and see how it goes.
Lisa Appleton returns next week to solve more sexual conundrums
Source: Celebrities - dailystar.co.uk
