When Garrett Hedlund’s Friends Call at 3 a.m., He Picks Up

Garrett Hedlund knows the allure of chaos — both onscreen in the television series “Tulsa King” as Mitch, a former bull rider and recovered addict, and offscreen as a restless Minnesotan who made his way to Hollywood and into movies like “Troy,” “Tron: Legacy” and “Friday Night Lights.”

“The silence, peace, serenity, isolation, the chores that pushed you away — it’s everything that eventually pulls you back,” he said in a video call from the Connecticut farm, circa 1738, that he now owns, with its apple orchard, big pond, old barn and wooded trails.

Now that Rhodes, his son with the actress Emma Roberts, is turning 4, “I get to share with him a little slice of the beauty of what I got to be raised with — even though at the time I didn’t see it as the beauty my father saw it as,” Hedlund said before expressing gratitude for his Gibson guitar, the music of Blaze Foley and Moleskin notebooks.

These are edited excerpts from the conversation.

My Son

Me and his mother, we co-parent, and I feel we co-parent quite wonderfully in this job. It’s not always the easiest. There’s a lot of sacrifices, but our sacrifices tend to be out of love for him. There’s rarely a day that goes by that one of us isn’t completely 100 percent there for him and with him.

My 27-Inch Gibson L1

I found it at a guitar shop in Birmingham, Ala. I was just looking for a travel guitar, and then I saw this 27 L1 hanging on the wall, and I fell in love instantly. Then this owner said goodbye in his own personal way. It was a guitar that he was selling of sentimental value, and I received it in a very parallel manner.

My Passport

I’ve always been an “I can fit my life in a carry-on” kind of guy, and a passport was always a bonus to extend a little bit of reach of freedom and possibility.