Vanessa Feltz’s ex Ben Ofoedu has begged her to take him back after being made homeless – despite confessing to cheating on her with fans.
Throughout their 16-year romance, Ben confessed he slept with a woman he met in Ibiza three times in 2015. And though the pair worked through that, Ben was later caught sexting another woman including nude pictures, and was caught flirting with someone at Butlins in Skegness last year.
Now he has begged Vanessa, 60, to take him back – and blamed his own “insecurities” for the breakdown of their relationship.
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In an interview with The Mirror, Ben, 50, branded Vanessa the “queen of my heart.”
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He said: “I’m sorry for all the pain caused to Vanessa, to her family, to mine. We had an amazing 16 years. It wasn’t perfect, but it was amazing. I truly love her. She’s the love of my life.
“Vanessa is perfect. She didn’t have any issues. I was all me, my insecurities. It’s my fault, my stupidity, I’ve thrown away my life. I hit the self-destruct button.”
Ben went on to add: “I just want it out there, me apologising to her for the pain I’ve caused. Of course I want to be with her, if she wants me back.
(Image: Phil Harris)
“I think I’ve got some soul searching to do, of course I hope there’s some reconciliation. I just want to speak to her. I want to sit her down and tell her I’m sorry in person.”
Ben said one of the reasons for his infidelity was because Vanessa wouldn’t tie the knot with him.
He said he realised “about 10 years in” that the pair would likely never marry, which “hurt”.
Vanessa was married once before between 1983 and 2000, to Michael Kurer – who later walked out on her, leaving her devastated.
(Image: Ben Ofoedu)
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Phats and Small singer Ben confessed he cheated because he was “insecure”, and as he “always dreamed of being married”, his insecurities only worsened when Vanessa wouldn’t take his last name.
He added: “The only woman I really love won’t walk down the aisle with me.”
Now Ben claims he’s been left homeless after Vanessa kicked him out of their £3.5million Gothic mansion in St. John’s Wood.
Vowing to seek therapy in a bid to win Vanessa back, Ben said he is not a “serial cheater” and that he feels he has “thrown his life away”.
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Source: Celebrities - dailystar.co.uk
