Lisa Appleton Sex Doctor: 'I don't want to perform oral sex on my boyfriend'

Lisa Appleton is back sharing her pearls of wisdom and trying to rid the nation of their sex woes.

Last week, the Big Brother beauty was helping a woman who called her ex’s name when having sex with her hubby.

Lisa told her not to worry as it’s more common than she thinks, and to try and make joke out of it with her husband.

This week, she is dishing out advice to a woman who has a phobia of performing oral sex.

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‘I have a phobia of performing oral sex’

Dear Lisa,

I have been with my boyfriend for a couple of months and we have had sex on a number of occasions and it’s been great. He’s very much a giver, which suits me down to the ground.

He loves performing oral sex on me, and while it’s the first time I’ve really experienced oral sex in a relationship, I’m really enjoying.

But I feel like it’s going to get to the point where he’s going to expect it in return.

But I’m terrified of doing this, as I have a huge phobia of it. I’ve only had a couple of sexual relationships in my life and the first one, I tried to perform oral sex but it made me vomit, and it was absolutely mortifying, and I’ve been terrified of doing it ever since.

But I really want to satisfy my boyfriend and for this not to become an issue. Do you have any tips about how I can get over this Lisa? As I’m not sure that I can. Anonymous

Lisa says:

Oh bless you. Well, the old saying is, there’s a first time for everything and you’re learning and it’s an experience and it’s new.

And when it comes down to sort of oral sex, it’s completely different for us women than it is for the men because with anything new- sexual experience, whatever it is, you don’t know quite what to expect, it can be scary.

And it is scary because you don’t know quite what to expect and that’s so normal and common of any new relationship.

So you’re not on your own, so don’t worry about it, just relax.

And the fact that your first experience wasn’t brilliant and it made you vomit has probably scared you and put you off for life. But there’s no need to, it’s just so normal.

We’ve all done it – we’ve all been there. 99% of us have. And the thing is, your man performs oral sex on you, which is great and it’s healthy. And for a man giving oral sex, they don’t have to put much in the mouth, if you know what I mean. It’s more of an outside job.

And when it comes to the woman giving oral sex to the man it’s more of an inside job. I think a lot of girls aren’t sure with all due respect, as I think some people think you’ve got to put the whole penis in and it just goes down your throat or something and that’s what makes you gag and vomit. And you don’t have to do that. That’s all about personal choice.

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And I think that’s what’s happened, bless you, I think you’ve not been too sure about the oral sex. But what I would do is just take your time and don’t be scared or frightened as your boyfriend will love you to do that to do that to him.

Men do love oral sex. Just do it like how they do it – they do it on the outside mainly, and they don’t really have to put a lot in the in mouth, as we don’t have penises do we?

So, it’s probably more easier for them to do oral sex. Just take it nice and slow and work your way from the outside down.

You’ve just had a bad experience and that’s made you feel a bit wary and that’s natural – he’ll understand. Take it slowly and just do it gradually and he’ll be supportive. And just relax and know that it’s completely normal.

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