Lisa Appleton is back sharing her tips and tricks to spice up Daily Star Online readers’ sex lives.
Last week, the Big Brother beauty had some strong words for a man whose girlfriend was planning a threesome – and he wasn’t included.
She told the man he was too nice for his own good and to ditch his other half immediately.
This week, she is helping a woman who’s been having an affair with her sister-in-law.
Lisa Appleton helps Daily Star Online readers with their nookie nightmares
Dear Lisa,
I’ve been married to my husband for nine years and it started off great and we were love’s young dream. But I found out last year that he had been having a year-long affair.
I was completely heartbroken but chose to forgive him as I love him and we have a three-year-old son. His affair coincided with his brother getting married to his long-term girlfriend.
She really helped me get through a lot of the heartbreak as we had girly nights out, going for cocktails etc and it helped me rebuild my confidence.
Then a few months ago on a night out she ended up kissing me and it was fireworks. One thing led to another and we ended up sleeping together.
And we’ve been sleeping together ever since. I’d never had a lesbian relationship before but I feel like I’ve really fallen for her.
I thought my husband would be putting in so much effort since the affair but he seems as distant as ever.
I don’t want to rip my family apart but I think I really want to give things a go with her.
What should I do?
Thanks,
Anonymous
Lisa says:
Oh bless you. Your husband’s had an affair for a year and you’ve got a three-year-old son and it hurts.
You’re not really going to get over it because the damage has been done and it triggers off these things inside you where you kind of lose respect for the person and you’ve gone off with his sister in law and slept with her.
It’s very, very messy.
The chances are it’s never going to work out and you still care for your husband but you’re hurt.
I’m not quite sure being with his sister in law is the answer for you and I don’t think you’re thinking properly.
When you’ve been hurt, you try and do something to hurt them back and I’m not sure if deep down this is really what you want in your heart.
You need some time out as it’s all over the place.
I just think it’s chaos and there’s no easy solution to it.
I think because he’s had an affair and you’ve had an affair, it’s not really achieved anything as your husband is distant still.
You’re not sure what to do. I think you need to have a break from the whole thing.
Focus on your son, concentrate on your son and yourself instead of all this that’s going on around you as you need time to recover and heal.
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