Lisa Appleton is back sharing her tips and tricks to help Daily Star Online readers keep their sex lives hot and spicy during the coronavirus lockdown.
Last week, she was advising someone who had recently started having an affair with her married boss via Zoom during the coronavirus lockdown.
Lisa advised the woman to halt the virtual affair, as she thought once restrictions were lifted they would end up escalating their romance from virtual sex to the real thing, and it would only end in tears.
This week, Lisa is advising a man whose girlfriend wants a threesome with her housemate to celebrate the UK ‘sex ban’ being lifted, which could stretch their relationship and the lockdown rules.
Boris Johnson said in a recent press conference: “From this weekend we will allow single adult households, living alone, or single parents with children under 18, to form a support bubble with one other household.”
Lisa Appleton helps Daily Star Online readers with their nookie nightmares
‘Girlfriend wants threesome when lockdown sex ban ends’
Dear Lisa,
With the lockdown sex ban lifting this weekend my girlfriend thinks we should go all out and have a threesome to celebrate. She’s suggested that she and I hook up with her female housemate.
Like any red-blooded male at first I thought this was a really exciting idea. But now I’m worried that it may be a bad idea. The thing is, throughout the two years of our relationship, I’ve always been a bit worried that her housemate, who’s had same sex relationships in the past, likes her a lot more than just a friend.
And while my girlfriend has never had relationships with women in the past, I’m a bit worried this one night of passion may push my girlfriend into the arms of her housemate forever.
Am I overthinking this and should I steer clear or should I just go for it?
Thanks
Anonymous
Lisa Appleton talks sex and relationships
Lisa says:
Honestly, I’d be overthinking it as well. That’s too right.
That’s a natural response as your girlfriend has never had a same sex relationship with another woman and she’s now suggesting it.
Obviously you’re going to be a bit cautious and you’ll be thinking about it as it’s a massive, massive step.
All I’d say is if you’re ever doing something that you’re not necessarily comfortable with, think of the consequences.
Now every man and woman is attracted to the same sex in some way shape or form.
You’re always going to get that.
And it’s great to have friends, it really is, but to actually suggest a threesome together you’ve got to really, really be comfortable about this.
I don’t think you are judging from the way you’ve asked the question and opened up to me and it will put so many doubts in your head too.
And you’ll think that when your girlfriend meets up with her girlfriend after the three of you have had sex, you’re always going to be thinking when they’re together are they having a snog or a little cheeky cuddle and a bit more?
And your girlfriend might end up enjoying it too much and you may lose her. Or it just might change the relationship.
It could put barriers up between you and if your guards go up, you’ve got problems.
And you could end up not communicating and not trusting each other and your relationships could end up on a downward spiral.
And these are all complications that could arise from getting involved with your girlfriend’s best friend.
I would just have a chat with her and say you’re not comfortable and is she being truthful that she doesn’t want more with her friend.
You just need to talk about it as you’re happy together and you don’t want it to end your relationship.
Keep your spirits up.
Lisa Appleton will be back next Saturday to share more of her tips and tricks
Source: Celebrities - dailystar.co.uk
