Lisa Appleton is back sharing her pearls of wisdom on all things love and sex to Daily Star Online readers.
Last week, the Big Brother beauty was helping a woman who was sleeping with her husband’s sister-in-law following her hubby’s affair.
Lisa wasn’t convinced that deep down the woman liked her husband’s sister-in-law and thought that she was still processing the emotions of her husband’s affair.
Lisa told her to take some time out for herself to focus on herself.
This week, Lisa is helping a woman who has fallen for her mum’s boyfriend.
Lisa Appleton helps Daily Star Online readers with their nookie nightmares
Dear Lisa,
I’ve found myself in a really sticky situation.
Last summer, my mum began dating a new man and despite only splitting up with her ex of five years just a month before, the new relationship moved really quickly and mum moved him in after just three dates.
Him moving in coincided with me moving back home from university but I actually hit it off with him right away, and it was great as my mum and I have always had a difficult relationship.
She and my dad split when I was really young because she had an affair. She’s had an abundance of relationships ever since and just doesn’t seem to be interested in me and my dad now has a new family and he seems equally disinterested.
I moved back in with my mum to pay off my student overdraft but as soon as I have, I will be moving out as she and I are at constant loggerheads.
I also think she became slightly resentful of my relationship with her boyfriend as he and I have such good banter – he’s a bit younger and likes a good laugh, so I think we’ve just connected.
A month ago, my relationship with him took a different turn.
My mum was out on a work night and he and I were left to our own devices.
We cracked open a bottle of wine and watched a film and had a really fun evening.
But banter turned into flirting and he and I ended up kissing – there was so much heat between us.
Then a couple of weeks ago, my mum was out with her work pals again, and this time he and I took things a step further and slept together – it was incredible.
He’s told me he wants me to leave my mum and is falling in love with me and I feel the same way.
I know it will hurt my mum if he and I get together but I feel like our relationship is pretty non-existent anyway.
I feel like I’d be missing out on something great if I don’t pursue it, but I do know deep down it’s probably not the wisest idea.
What should I do?
Thanks
Anonymous
Lisa says:
Well, your mum certainly throws herself around a bit doesn’t she? You know, she’s had affairs and the marriage ended because of the affairs and then she went with a young guy and that ended and then she’s been with three dates with her latest toy-boy and moved him in the house.
It’s just the way she’s wired up, maybe? I think she’s probably quite selfish and not concerned with other people’s feelings and does what she wants to do.
You’ve now moved in with your mum and you don’t get on and you clash all the time, you’re at loggerheads. And since your dad’s settled down, she’s not interested in him or you.
Lisa Appleton talks sex and relationships
Your mum’s boyfriend is younger and with you being younger, it’s just the way you are and you’ve probably just clicked and have more in common – that’s natural.
The fact he’s made a move on you, he’s not taking your mum seriously and why he’s she moved him in so quick? After three dates? That’s so quick as after that time, you don’t really know the person.
He says he loves you and he wants to be with you, I think the best thing you can do is take some time out for yourself and focus on you for a while and remove yourself from the equation.
Lisa returns next Saturday with some more tips and tricks
Source: Celebrities - dailystar.co.uk
