Big Brother babe Lisa Appleton is back sharing her tips and tricks to Daily Star Online readers, to ensure for no hanky-panky horrors or nookie nightmares.
Last week, Lisa advised a woman whose boyfriend refused to perform oral sex on her, despite her performing it on him.
Lisa said communication was key in this situation and the woman should calmly highly the unfairness of the situation to her beau.
This week, Lisa is helping a man who wants to see his girlfriend have sex with his best friend in a kinky sexual fantasy.
Lisa Appleton helps Daily Star Online readers with their nookie nightmares
‘I want my girlfriend to have sex with my best friend’
Dear Lisa,
My girlfriend and I have been together for three years and it’s been great – we are constantly laughing and joking and rarely ever argue.
I was a bit of a bad boy before I met her and slept around but how amazing she is made me want to give up that life and settle down. I really do see myself being with her forever.
But despite our relationship being amazing, I feel like as much as our sex life is great, it’s a bit vanilla, and I’m someone who has a very high sex drive.
I want us to ramp up the kinkiness between the sheets.
It’s always been a fantasy of mine to watch her have sex with another man. I’m not sure why, but the idea of it has always turned me on.
I went round to my best friend’s house the other week, and I brought up the sexual fantasy to him, and he readily volunteered his services.
I think it would be so hot and so exciting, but I’m scared if I bring it up to my girlfriend, I may push her away.
What should I do Lisa?
Thanks,
Anonymous
Lisa says:
Well, fantasies are healthy, fantasies are normal, we all have them.
But it all depends what limits you’re prepared to go to satisfy your fantasy and whether you’re willing to risk upsetting your girlfriend. And is it all worth it?
So, it’s fine having a fantasy, but I’d be careful because your friend is up for it and your girlfriend might feel a bit like, ‘Woah! And do you seriously want to put me through that? Have sex with one of your best friends and it will turn you on?’.
It’s almost like a bit invasive, it’s something that’s a bit strange.
If you do choose to approach her about it, it’s best to make it clear that it is a fantasy and say it light-heartedly and that will give you a steer as to how your girlfriend is feeling.
If she looks shocked and jokes about, she’s having a laugh with you and may be on the same page.
But if she gets offended, you’ll know where the ground lies.
So, it’s just all about approaching her in a very light-hearted way.
Just say, I had a dream about you the other night, where I watched you have sex with one of my friends, and it was really horny or something and see what she says.
And she may joke back. But to actually go ahead and do it, it could cause a lot of psychological scars.
Lisa Appleton talks sex and relationships
Because if you actually do it, she may be like, ‘Oh god I’ve slept with his friend,’ and she might say to you, ‘Oh, I enjoyed it.’
And your friend may end up wanting to go out with her – and this is the love of your life and it could end up disastrous.
And I said, I think there are a lot of potential psychological side effects with this that could affect your relationship and your happiness.
Talk about your fantasies as it’s healthy to, but be careful how you approach it.
And you might be surprised, she may even suggest you get with her girlfriend!
You just don’t know, do you.
But I wish you all the best and I hope that helped.
Lisa Appleton returns next week to answer some more of your sex dilemmas
Source: Celebrities - dailystar.co.uk
