Lisa Appleton is giving her advice once more in a bid to prevent hanky-panky horrors and nookie nightmares.
Last week, the Big Brother beauty was helping someone who was worried she’d be put off real-life sex after becoming obsessed with webcam sex during the coronavirus lockdown.
Lisa advised the woman to not be so hard on herself, as she had not long come out of a long-term relationship, and to just enjoy herself until she felt ready to have sex with another person again.
This week, Lisa is helping someone whose boyfriend’s dad tried it on with her while she was isolating at their family home.
Lisa Appleton helps Daily Star Online readers with their nookie nightmares
‘ Boyfriend’s dad tried it on with me – and I liked it’
Dear Lisa,
I’ve been staying with my boyfriend and his family during the lockdown as we decided we didn’t want to spend the time apart.
We really enjoyed it for the first few weeks, as we both have really intense jobs, so we normally don’t get to spend a lot of time together.
But fun has turned into feuds over the last few weeks and we’ve been rowing all the time and I just don’t think it’s working anymore.
The other night, my boyfriend and his mum went to have a socially distanced visit with his nan and to be honest I was happy for the space.
I decided to sit out in the garden and enjoy the sunshine and his dad came out and joined me and brought some wine.
His dad and and I have always really got on, as we have a very similar sense of humour, so we had a real giggle. However, things took a funny turn.
His dad lunged at me and kissed me, which completely took me back, but I have to say the kiss was incredible.
We both decided to stop before it led to anymore but I can’t stop thinking about it and even had a sex dream about him the other night.
We keep catching each other’s gaze on the days since and I really want to sleep with him and I think he does too, as I can tell he’s not happy in his marriage.
Am I being completely stupid here?
Thanks,
Anonymous
Lisa says:
Lisa Appleton talks sex and relationships
This is a real lockdown dilemma isn’t it?
First of all, you’re an adult, I can’t actually tell you what to do as you’ll make your own mistakes.
Lockdown it does many, many things to you, everything intensifies and becomes more dramatised and magnified.
And this is where we have to really stay grounded. Because you’re with your boyfriend – and his dad and mum may not be happy in the marriage, but it doesn’t give the dad the right to lunge at you.
Okay, you have a laugh and a joke and a giggle – a lot of people do connect in that way.
But it doesn’t mean to say you can take advantage of that and try and convince yourself that your boyfriend’s father is worth jeopardising your relationship with your boyfriend and the whole family and it could end up being something you totally regret.
If I was you, and I know you’ll make up your own mind, just be very careful.
I know it’s awkward, as you’ve got this eye contact going on, and you ended up having a dream about him and he’s lunged at you and gave you a kiss. You’d had a few wines and after a few jars that can make you a little bit more forward and a bit more wild and crazy and it’s a bit of fun at the time.
But then you’re left dealings with all these thoughts and feelings afterwards and it’s awkward.
Personally, I wouldn’t go there, it’s a difficult time for all of us, and your boyfriend’s dad – don’t take this the wrong way – but he probably was a little bit drunk and he’s probably enjoyed the fun factor if he’s not happy in his marriage.
But your left dealing with all of his problems during lockdown. And when lockdown’s lifted and you and your boyfriend decided you want to settle down, it’s always going to be in the back of your head that you may have had sex with his dad and it’s not going to work. Flop city.
It’s just a disaster waiting to happen, honestly.
So, my darling, I do believe it’s very stressful in lockdown and you’ve had a few drinks and he’s lunged at you and given you a kiss. I’d leave it at that.
Just make it clear and don’t give those signals off to his dad that it’s right in any way. You know, don’t be doing any flashing or giving him any winks, and don’t leave yourself in a vulnerable position either where it’s just you and him – but I know they had to go and visit their nan.
Next time if you’re alone with him, don’t have anything else to drink and make it clear that I’m busy, I’ve got a work assignment etc.
It’s awkward, but I think you get the drill and I’m sure it will be fine.
Lisa Appleton will be back next weekend to help solve more sexual dilemmas
Source: Celebrities - dailystar.co.uk
