Lisa Appleton has just got back from a sun-soaked holiday and is ready and raring to help Daily Star Online readers solve their hanky-panky horrors and nookie nightmares.
Last week, she was helping a woman who had slept with her mum’s boyfriend and wanted to be with him.
She advised the woman, who had an already fractured relationship with her mum, to take some time out and focus on herself.
This week, she is helping a man whose girlfriend’s sex obsession has become a problem.
Lisa Appleton helps Daily Star Online readers with their nookie nightmares
‘My girlfriend’s sex obsession is becoming a problem’
Dear Lisa,
I’ve been dating my girlfriend for six months.
Before her, I was a real player, I would regularly have one-night stands, never wanted to settle down and enjoyed living the fast life.
But when I met her, everything completely changed for me. She was so gorgeous and so fun and had a sex drive that rivalled mine, so I never needed to look elsewhere again.
However, it’s her crazy sex drive that is starting to cause a wedge between us.
While I love the fact that she is so sexual as I’m that way too, it’s becoming too much and I’m worried it may affect me professionally.
My company has gone back to working at the office now, and because she missed me working from home, she has constantly been sending rude videos and pictures of herself.
Lisa Appleton talks sex and relationships
They’ve been popping up on my phone in important meetings and my boss nearly saw a particularly graphic photo the other day. And I can’t switch my phone off as I have to have it on all the time due to the nature of my job.
She also tried performing oral sex on me while we on our way to do the supermarket shop the other night and I nearly crashed into another car.
I know people may think I’m mad fro complaining about this, but it’s getting to the point where it’s becoming a real problem.
And her sexual side was just one of the sides of her that I fell in love with – I miss seeing the other sides.
How do I tell her this without hurting her feelings?
Thanks
Anonymous
Lisa says:
Well, there are so many different snippets to this. First of all, get another phone. Have your work phone and a personal phone.
The other phone switch off and you tell your girlfriend that and just say that the business and pleasure side don’t mix.
So tell her with your work phone you’ve got to have it on all the time and you could lose your job if pictures keep cropping up.
So, she’ll be fine about that and she’s not going to take that the wrong way.
And have a separate phone for communication with your girlfriend and explain that she needs to contact you on your breaks.
Also, during lockdown you spent more time together and it’s affected so many different relationships as people were bored so were spending more time together.
And people have been having more sex and want to keep that up as it feels good. But now, you’re back at work now in the office and your girlfriend’s at home and she’s still got these sexual feelings and it’s quite normal.
But, it’s just getting that balance where you don’t just go from one extreme to seeing each other loads in lockdown and having lots of sex and then stop – because that’s when affairs can happen.
She might have an affair because she’s not getting what she wants from you.
So, it’s about communication in any relationship and you want to keep your girlfriend happy, but you’re busy back at work and you’ve not got as much time and you won’t be feeling as randy as you’re busy.
It’s just about making those adjustments and explaining it, so you still have your sexual time and can appreciate some of the pictures.
Lisa Appleton returns next week to help solve more sexual queries
Source: Celebrities - dailystar.co.uk
