Lisa Appleton is back sharing her pearls of wisdom, and giving tips to keep thing spicy in the bedroom during lockdown.
Last week, she was advising people on how to introduce sex toys into the bedroom, and this week, it’s all about role-play.
Lisa Appleton helps Daily Star Online readers with their nookie nightmares
‘Wanting to get kinky with role-play in lockdown’
Dear Lisa,
My boyfriend and I have been working from home for the past two and a half weeks and while we have had a good healthy sex life throughout our seven year relationship, it has got a bit vanilla over the past year.
And I’ve been okay with that as I love my boyfriend to bits.
But I don’t want us to completely lose that intimacy so we end up becoming more like friends than boyfriend and girlfriend.
Therefore, I thought quarantine and this working from home time was the perfect opportunity to spice things up.
But when I look on line for ways to turn up the heat in the bedroom, it all looks a bit painful!
Therefore, I was thinking roleplay might be a fun way to have a bit of fun, but I have no idea what sexy scenarios to try and how I’m going to get over feeling super self conscious. I’m thinking I want to take the lead though. Do you have any tips on how I can lose my inhibitions? And any idea about what dress up options we could try?
Thanks Lisa!
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Lisa Appleton talks sex and relationships
Lisa says:
Well, we’re all faced with being forced to stay indoors as a couple, which we’re not used to for so long – and it’s all about adjusting.
It’s not going to happen overnight. And with you feeling self-conscious about doing things you’re not used to, that’s completely natural and normal.
So, it’s just about going with each day as it comes. But you don’t want to become bored, as you’ll just sit there watching telly, talking about things that are a bit drab.
You’ve got to spice things up. And with your food as well – I’ve been having more spicy foods. And things like that will speed your metabolism up, and might make you feel good, and having lots of fruit as well, it keeps your brain active.
It’s a long time to be stuck inside, and your relationship could soon go downhill.
So what I would do, is bring the outdoors in, so for example, he could put his trunks on, you could put your bikini on, and you can do a bathroom scene.
You can think you’re outdoors – you’re on the beach.
You can stand in the bath, but watch you don’t slip, obviously heath and safety is important.
And you can go under the shower, and keep your bikinis on and your trunks, and you can wash each other – have a snog.
And then take your bikini off, and you’ll probably find it’s so enjoyable and do it again.
Another one is, dress-up – wear a nice sexy dress and your fella can wear a suit, and you can pretend you’ve just come up in from a night out.
And you can put some James Bond music on, and roll around the rug and kiss like they do on James Bond.
You don’t have to strip off straight away, lift your dress up and roll around on the rug and be romantic with each other.
As if you’re just stuck in the bedroom on the bed, it’s going to be begin to feel mundane and vanilla.
So these tips will help because then afterwards you’ll feel really good.
And just go through your wardrobe and see what underwear and outfits you’ve got, and you can try out different outfits in different rooms of the house.
If you want to be a bit dominant, wear some sexy underwear, and say to him, ‘get your trousers off and get in the bedroom!’
And he’ll be chuffed, and you can go in the bedroom and boss him about it.
If you get embarrassed you’ll laugh if you try something too far-fetched, but if you don’t try it, you’ll miss out on some fun.
And you’ll get so turned on, and think this is so spicy – I’m loving it!
But you may not, but you’ll still have some fun. And you can talk about it after and have a giggle about these things.
Lisa Appleton will be back next weekend sharing more tips and tricks
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