Lisa Appleton is determined to keep Daily Star Online readers’ love lives on track during the coronavirus lockdown.
And she’s back this week sharing more tips and tricks this week to help a woman whose husband wants her to take on a more dominant role in the bedroom after he cheated on her.
We wonder what Lisa will think?!
Dear Lisa,
My husband and I have been married for seven years.
We met at uni and instantly hit it off and for the most part, the relationship has been great. But just over a month ago, I found messages on his phone to another woman and I confronted him about it and he admitted to having had a six-month affair.
He said he didn’t love her but he liked the fact that she dominated him in the bedroom-something he felt was missing with me.
I decided to forgive him as I really love him and want to have a future with him and have kids but he thinks all of our problems will be solved if I start dominating him.
He wants me to make him my sex slave-think whips, chains the lot, as he says he’s bored with our sex life.
I want to do anything I can to make the marriage work and it seems like now is a good time to work on us as we’ve got lots of time on our hands due to lockdown.
But I don’t know if I feel comfortable taking the more dominant role and I’m not convinced this will solve all our issues.
Do you have any advice Lisa?
Thanks,
Anonymous
Lisa says:
Ok, so you’re in this relationship, you’ve got plans for the future, and clearly you haven’t been dominant yet and you’re obviously not like that by nature – it doesn’t mean that you can’t be.
And now you’ve found the messages on your other half’s phone and he’s admitted to a six-month affair and he doesn’t love this woman but she dominated him.
Well, that’s a sign there that he’s now pressuring you because he knows you want the marriage to work and he wants to be the sex slave with chains and whips, which can be quite shocking, if you’ve never done that type of thing before and you might not quite be sure of what’s involved.
I think this is really going to take some careful consideration on both parts.
Lisa Appleton talks sex and relationships
Firstly, are you mentally stable enough and sure that you have forgiven him for having an affair because I know it can keep playing on your mind from time to time, and you’re going to start throwing it back in his face.
Are you sure that you’ve forgiven him and you can move forward?
But if you have, lockdown is the perfect time to experiment a bit and spice up your love life, if you are going top experiment, do it gradually.
With whips etc it might not feel instantly sexual for you. So maybe, start with tying him up and easing yourself in.
But, you have got to consider if he really wants to make this marriage work, as you’ve also got to think about when you have babies in the future.
Is he going to get bored and run off again?
Consider all aspects.
Just really think about commitments and the future.
But if you say no, you don’t want to experiment. What’s he going to do? You might say to him I am a bit boring but what are you going to do? I am who I am. Off you go.
But you can’t quite do that in lockdown can you!
Maybe tell him you’ll try experimenting but you’ll reassess it once lockdown lifts.
Good luck!
Lisa returns next week to solve more sexual woes
Source: Celebrities - dailystar.co.uk
