Lisa Appleton has been a busy bee this week, as she got all glammed up for a stunning photoshoot – pictures Daily Star Online will be sharing at a later date.
But the Big Brother beauty still find time to help Daily Star Online readers solve their sexual conundrums.
This week, she is helping a man who left his wife for a much younger woman, but can’t keep up with his new love in the bedroom department.
We wonder what Lisa will have to say to this one!
Lisa Appleton helps Daily Star Online readers with their nookie nightmares
‘Left my wife for much younger woman but can’t keep up’
Dear Lisa,
It caused shockwaves amongst my family, but earlier this year, I left my wife for a much younger woman.
My wife and I had been married for 47 years, having tied the knot when we were both teenagers.
For the most part, we had a great marriage. But over the last 10 years, the romance completely died. I tried everything. Romantic dinners, rose petals on the bed but she just wasn’t interested in having the intimate side of a relationship anymore.
I never thought I’d be the type to cheat, but last year, I employed a PA at my business, who is 30 years my junior and we instantly hit it off.
After various work functions, she made it known that she was interested in me, and to say I was fostered was an understatement.
As much as I was racked with guilt, we began a hot and heavy affair, as she was offering me something my wife wasn’t.
A few months back, I realised I’d fallen in love with her and took the decision to leave my wife.
She was heartbroken and my grown-up children were furious, but I refuse to give up on romance just because I’m in my sixties.
We are now living together and it’s great as I adore her and I feel like I’ve got my spark back again.
But there’s an issue. Being in her thirties her energy levels and sexual appetite are far greater than mine. And as much as I’m loving having a sex life again, in struggling to keep up in the bedroom.
I don’t want to tell her as I’m worried it will suddenly wake her up and she’ll realise she’s dating an old fogie, but I’m genuinely worried I’m going to do myself a mischief.
How do I tell her while still saving face?
Thanks
Anonymous
Lisa says:
Well, I can understand if your marriage broke down because there wasn’t any sexual activity and romance – we all need that.
I mean, we can even be at it in our nineties – there’s no age limit.
Sometimes, it doesn’t happen with older people as they can have less of a sex drive, as they may not be feeling quite as energetic.
It sounds like you’re really happy with the younger woman, and you’re happy and healthy and living together but she probably wants a bit more sex and is a bit more horny.
But this can be addressed – start taking more vitamins and exercising more and you’ll find that your desire and sex drive will pick up and you’ll feel more fit and energetic.
Regarding trying to keep up with your girlfriend’s demands, this could start to stress you out, as you might worry that she’ll get fed up with you if you don’t want it every night.
Lisa Appleton talks sex and relationships
Once stress builds up, that can start depleting your good feeling hormones and your motivation and you’ll be worrying about, so communication is important.
So, just have a gentle chat, and just say, on the nights you’re not feeling on top form, just say you’re exhausted and you’re tired.
And suggest just having a nice hot bath and a good sleep and you’ll be fine the next day.
I think she’ll be fine and you’ll be dancing like a dog with two d***s very soon. Hope that’s helped.
Lisa Appleton will be back next week to share more tips and tricks
Source: Celebrities - dailystar.co.uk
