Kelsey Parker speaks out about baby loss as she makes tear-jerking confession
Kelsey Parker has spoken for the first time about the tragic stillbirth of her third child, a son she named Phoenix, who she shared with her new partner Will Lindsay08:11, 07 Aug 2025Updated 09:01, 07 Aug 2025Kelsey Parker has opened up about suffering the loss of her baby(Image: OK! Magazine / Chelsea White)Kelsey Parker is “taking each day as it comes” as she speaks publicly for the first time about losing her baby Phoenix. The podcast presenter and widow of The Wanted’s Tom Parker heartbreakingly revealed her third child was stillborn at 39 weeks in June.She had been eagerly anticipating the arrival of her first baby with partner Will Lindsay, whom she found romance with two years following Tom’s devastating death from an inoperable brain tumour in 2022. Following her pregnancy announcement in January, five months later Kelsey shared the crushing news that their little boy, whom they had called Phoenix, was stillborn.A devastated Kelsey stepped back from social media and her professional commitments. In her first interview since the heartbreak, Kelsey revealed: “I didn’t think I’d be living a relived experience, first losing Tom and now losing Phoenix.”But I think with any grief and loss, you have to take each day as it come and work through it.”, reports the Mirror.Kelsey Parker with her partner Will Lindsay and children Aurelia and Bodhi Parker(Image: OK! Magazine / Chelsea White)Kelsey is mother to Aurelia, six, and Bodhi, four, with The Wanted star, and the family has now faced bereavement once more with their youngest sibling.”For the kids, it just breaks my heart for them because obviously we wanted the happy ever after and to have Phoenix but that didn’t pan out for us,” Kelsey explains. The mum revealed that when it came to delivering the devastating news to Aurelia and Bodhi so shortly after losing their father, she drew upon her initial experience with bereavement to navigate this fresh tragedy.”I spoke about it like I did with Tom, I just told them the truth.”I think that’s all you can do with your children, in anything you’re going through, be honest. Because I think people underestimate their children and what their children can cope with. Children have little ears and they listen to a lot of conversations.”Kelsey has opened up about sharing the heartbreaking news with Aurelia and Bodhi(Image: OK! Magazine / Chelsea White)During the filming of her documentary, Kelsey Parker: Life After Tom, the mum encountered a family whose father had taken his own life. “The children said they felt so shut out because all the adults kept coming and having conversations in rooms and shutting the children out and I think they felt isolated. Whereas I don’t want my children to feel like that, they are very involved in the conversations.”Kelsey disclosed that losing their father Tom actually assisted Aurelia and Bodhi in processing Phoenix’s death. “I think for them it actually makes it easier because they’ve gone through loss, they understand what death is.”We’re sort of almost like the Addams Family because we’ve gone though so much death and darkness. The children are very aware.”Aurelia likes to tell people that her dad’s died and her brother’s died. She will openly say it, but it’s other people’s reactions. They can’t cope with how honest and open we are.Kelsey lost her husband Tom two years ago”But it’s a fact of life, we are all going to die that is one thing guaranteed. We’re going to be born and we’re going die.”Throughout this heartbreaking period, Kelsey has been surrounded by love from her family and continues to receive unwavering support from Tom’s parents, with whom she maintains a close bond.”Noreen and Nige, Tom’s mum and dad, have literally been there for me every day since. We were absolutely devastated. I call Noreen all the time, we always talk.”We’re going through grief again.”Kelsey Parker is supporting Virgin Media O2 and Hubbub’s Community Calling initiative to encourage people to donate unwanted smartphones to those who need them. Through Community Calling – an initiative set up to tackle digital exclusion – unused, working devices can be rehomed to someone in need. More information can be found at https://hubbub.org.uk/community-calling.Have you joined Threads? Follow Daily Star to keep up to date on all things showbiz hereArticle continues belowWant all the biggest Showbiz and TV news straight to your inbox? Sign up for our free Daily Star Showbiz newsletter More