Lisa Appleton is back sharing her pearls of wisdom with another person who is facing a sexual conundrum.
Last week, Lisa helped someone who was scared of performing oral sex on their boyfriend.
Lisa gave some pointers to the woman about how she could relax into the act, so that it didn’t seem too scary.
This week, Lisa is helping someone who had a drunken lockdown threesome with their housemates – and is keen for it to happen again.
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‘Feeling awkward after drunk lockdown threesome with housemates’
Dear Lisa,
As you know, we’re in week seven now of lockdown and I think a lot of people are starting to go stir crazy.
Myself (female) and my two male housemates have been keeping ourselves entertained by having booze-filled weekly quizzes.
However, our latest one took a surprising turn. After copious amounts of wine, we ended up having a passionate threesome.
I’ve never done anything like that before and have never previously looked at my housemates in that way either, but I have to admit I really enjoyed it, and it’s actually taken me by surprise just how much I enjoyed it.
It’s not been awkward since – we’ve all giggled about it and said it was a fun night.
But I think my two housemates just view it as a one-time racy thing not to be repeated.
But the awkward thing is, is that I really want to repeat it.
How do I bring it up to them that I think it would be fun to do it again and do you think it’s a good idea to suggest a repeat performance?
Thanks,
Anonymous
Lisa says:
Oh my god darling, sounds like the Big Brother house!
When I went in the Big Brother house it honestly felt like lockdown because it certainly restricts you from going outside and doing the things you’re used to doing.
It can open up so many different things in your head during lockdown and magnify everything – you know if you think there’s an opportunity with someone in the house, it’s magnified.
If you think someone’s fit they’re even fitter in lockdown and if there’s drama then that’s even more dramatised – lockdown does funny things to your brain.
The psychologists told us about it before we went into the Big Brother house, so that’s why I know all about it after experiencing it for myself.
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You guys are keeping yourselves healthy, you’ve had a threesome and it can feel a little awkward afterwards and you might all feel different vibes.
Well, let me tell you, feeling awkward and sitting there like a headmistress and trying to talk about it, is not going to work.
So, what you need to do is carry on being your happy and positive self, and just do another party – don’t put obstacles in the way, mountains in the way, hurdles in the way.
Just do another party, play spin the bottle, have some drinks and say ‘it’s cocktail night’!
It’s by being free and happy and positive during lockdown that people are more receptive.
So, there’s no need to be in your housemates’ face about it, just be chilled, have another party, and maybe make some punch!
Put some grapes in, and then peaches, and then apples, and then bananas, and then strawberries, some wine and some cider, and you could then play spin the bottle.
Just be yourself, be who you were to instigate that fun in the first place.
And we’re all drinking more inside – I’ve had a few, but you know, so what. You do these things indoors, you drink more indoors, you party more indoors.
So, keep it simple, have a party, and it’s in those moments where people will tune in, or should I say, get turned on!
Lisa Appleton returns next week to answer more Daily Star Online readers’ sex problems
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